Females can be used either with dildos, strap-ons or true intercourse. The variations are probably greater for females [three easily available adjacent portals]. Straight fucking with a plug in is probably easiest for the initiate in the doggie style. The plug can be felt but is held up and out of the way. There is little additional pressure on the plug. The likelihood of accidental plug release is decreased with pressures in the direction of insertion. Large or heavy dildos should be kept away from the back wall of the vagina. Additional pressure may be obtained by catheterizing the bladder with a balloon catheter [be careful with this] and then fucking doggie style or supine on a bed edge or table.

For those of you who have had intercourse with an enema, you know the pleasure of the additional pressure or the joy of having the contents moved about with the motion. Plugs provide a safe way of retaining fluid or not having to use fluid to get a similar feelings or effects. The best, of course, is the ability to wear a plug in a public place or have your slave wear the plug with the only awareness between you.

Spanking over the knee is another form of stimulation which can be used with a butt plug. With the plug slightly exposed, the slapping can be applied so that the impact hits upon the plug forcing it slightly forward. Other crops and devices can be used to tap butt plugs with the wearers limbs separated. Victorian tables allow insertion of butt and vaginal plugs with prone positioning.

Additional techniques can be used with cannulated [plugs with holes in them]. The wearer can be made to take small but increasing volume enemas. The wearer can be hooked up with a hose and the master can blow into the hose as needed without fear of loss of air or content. This can provide for frequent increases in discomfort levels as needed. Soap sticks [small shaped soap pieces] can be inserted into the rectum with or without water and a plug inserted. This causes later cramping and discomfort so that the wearer can be made to be in public areas with later cramping and distress. I have used plugs with glycerine suppositories. With other, more irritant suppositories as with enemas like fleet, it is hard to stop the burning feeling at the insertion point and the strength of contraction sometimes loosens even larger plugs. Glycerine is less irritating than soap sticks and does not require water for an effect. If you have not had experience with suppositories, do not use more than 6-8 adult size or the plug will loosen from all the lubrication provided by the suppositories.

There are some novel ways to use plugs in cars. Although not always the best, sometimes one is in an auto with the need for a plug. Solo, a plug can be inserted by placing the feet on the dash in the passenger seat or having the driver insert the plug while the feet are elevated. This allows for some privacy unless a truck happens by. If the seats are low backed, the wearer can be bent over the seat, knees on spread for reasonable insertion. The car provides a perfect place to use a cannulated plug so that air or water can be instilled [put in] while the bouncing of the vehicle produces additional pressures. The plug, if well fitted will stay secure.

Nighttime use of plugs is another use. Place the plug as usual and then send the wearer off to sleep. It will stay in all night if there has been no enema. Great expulsion effects can be had with glycerine sticks left in overnight or small volume irritant enemas [soap or castile soap].

There are fitted plugs and plugs with vibrators. These seem best used after initial straight plugs have worked. There are g-spot plugs which double as anal plugs and can be used as doubles, one in vagina one in ass with TWO vibrators! A single can be used in the ass only.

What is available

Standard butt plugs are conical with a central bulge and a small pinched area before a grip. Some grips are very small and narrow and some caution is advisable that the plug is not lost deep into the rectum. This is the worst of all possibilities and may require medical or surgical removal with some attendant damage to the rectum and surrounding structures. This is to be avoided. I discourage the use of non standard materials such as bottles because they lack a method for retrieval or removal. There are other butt plugs including ones in the shape of a penis, some with rough edges. These are for the well trained rather than the initiate. For those with watersport training there are plugs with central or radial canals so that an enema can be administered after the plug has been inserted. There are some plugs which can be inflated, so that once inserted, loss prevention can be assured with pressure inflation. These should be used only by experienced masters since over filling can cause tearing of the interior.

Insertions

There are many ways to insert butt plugs. First a word about hygiene. It is important to realize that although the ass can be a center for much pleasure and stimulation, it is also a route of elimination. Great care should be taken with females not to cross contaminate the vagina and rectal areas; however, after a good enema prep and cleansing, switching between rectum and vagina can be done. Prior to that, using one hand for each with care taken not to switch or to clean them between insertions is a good idea. By the same token, toys used for the rectum should not directly be inserted into the vagina. With males, some care should be taken that toys or other contaminants do not come in direct contact with the head of the penis. Especially care should be taken if catheters are used that the areas are cleaned before insertion and before removal, with either male or female.

The first insertion described here is for initiates and helps to get into the fun of the act. Later, if desired, other aspects can be added or deleted as the master sees fit. There are several easier positions for insertion including standing bent over, standing bent over with cheeks spread or on knees, chest on pillow. This traditional method, with the ass thrust up in the air and the legs spread apart is probably the easiest for initiates. It also allows for other genital stimulation making the experience more whole. If there is difficulty with collapsing of the legs or bringing the legs together with stimulation, either a standard leg restrainer or simple pillow can be used to hold the legs. Use of a lubricant with initiates helps increase the fun and makes for better fitting initially. Once the optimal holding size has been determined then other methods, without lubricants can be used.

Take a finger, coat it with lubricant, the best I’ve found is WET and gently wipe around the asshole. Depending on the experience of the person, you may elect to do this for several minutes with spreading motions of the outer ring. You may want, with initiates, to use a glove for the first insertions. Begin to probe with the finger, making small circular motions inside the ass, probing to your right. If you remove the finger and see feces [shit] on it, it may be a good time to use a small cleansing enema. Warm soapsuds work best. A low volume will allow later additional enemas without ruining the effect. Allow retention lying on the left side for about 5-6 minutes with expulsion and good cleaning around the genital area with warm soap and water. With males make sure to clean the testicle folds; with females be sure to wipe from front to back. I don’t recommend the use of fleet or dulcolax suppositories, both of which give great testing enemas for advanced use but cause dryness and take too long for this part of the procedure.

Now that your initiate has returned, put him or her back to the original position. Stand the butt plug upright on a towel and apply an amount of WET to the tip. Thrust it gently into the ass but then withdraw it even though it may only easily go in a half inch. Regrease it. Reinsert it. This may need to be repeated 4 – 6 times with liberal use of lubricant. Don’t use vaseline since it ruins the butt plug and works poorly as a lubricant. Similarly many lotions and oils do not hold up well. The plug should slide into the ass with no distress up to its widest point at which time there will be some protesting or moving away on the part of the wearer, If necessary restrain the wearer by holding around the legs or inserting a finger into the vagina. Sometimes with women, inserting a finger or two into the vagina and massaging through to the rectum can relax those tissues and make insertion easier. With males, stroking the balls or penis can increase arousal with insertion done between those periods of arousal.

If the plug you have chosen seems to fit well and advancing the size causes unwanted pain or discomfort; stop. There are other positions for plug insertion including supine with legs held aloft, spread or together, and prone with the legs spread but knees flat on the ground. The latter is not particularly satisfying because there is little access to other genital areas. Lying on the side with one knee in front of the other is another position and is good for post enema plug insertions with minimal fluid loss. Plugs can be inserted on a wheel with the wearer upside down or even in vehicles. A favorite is to have the wearer lean over the seat, touching the back seat with the hands and then insert.

Testing the Plug

Well, you say. How do I know if the plug will stay in. How can I test it. What if it plops out at some inopportune time. Will it hold with an enema? Once the wearer has been properly fitted and the largest size which doesn’t flop back out obtained, have the wearer stand [if not already standing]. Ask them to try to have a bowel movement [squeeze]. If the plug flies out, go for a larger size. If that does not make the plug come out, ask them to squat. The plug should hold. Some people, particularly females who have had children may be able to hold the plug by squeezing the rectum but otherwise find the plug gradually slips out. Masters may find that the best test of retention is to have the wearer go for a walk. The wearer may find lots of pleasure with the internal pressure and the movement producing great sensations. Another test is to have women squat, insert two fingers into the vagina facing rearward and press against the plug. Without using a lot of force, plugs which are too small but which are being retained by the squeezing of muscles rather than the proper sizing of the plug can be expelled and a proper size plug replaced.

Removing Plugs

Once in, the plugs can be removed by grasping the wider base, asking the wearer to relax and twisting the plug outward in a corkscrew like motion. Pressure against the abdomen, over the pubis [just above the clit or penis] or pressure in the space between the vagina and rectum or testicles and rectum can help release a well implanted plug. Inserting fingers into the vagina and applying force is ok so long as the fingers are well lubricated and the force is not applied just to the wall of the vagina but along a length of the device. There is a possibility of injury if force is used. If there is still trouble, a well lubricated finger can be run around the outer rim of the device until the outer ring of the asshole releases. Remember, if there is an enema inside, there will be NO DELAY between removal of the plug and expulsion. If you elect to remove a plugged enema, best to do so in the area in which elimination is intended.

Plugs are easy, portable fun. They can be used by individuals or groups. Care should be taken to clean a plug before it is inserted into someone else. Usually surface cleaning with soap and water or the use of a cleaning agent helps. WET lubricant has antibacterial and antiviral agents in the lubricant; K-Y does not.

how long should a butt plug be?

Avoid long, inflexible anal toys. The anus is curved and it can be painful to push a hard, straight object too far in. All of your longer anal toys should be flexible.

Butt plugs come in many diameters, but most are just a few inches long, as they don’t need to be too long to do their job properly. An oversized butt plug is for people who know they can handle them, often for the purpose of anal stretching or sphincter stretching. With the larger diameter of a butt plug this size, it’s possible to hurt yourself if you aren’t using some care.