There are several reasons to use butt plug training. It is a fairly disciplined activity; however, done correctly can be satisfying for both the wearer and master. It provides good stimulation for the wearer and allows a patterned behavior to be formed. It can prepare the wearer for anal intercourse, advanced watersport activities, or anal control. It can be used to help with some discipline activities such as enema retention and allows the master to properly size a butt plug to prevent falling out or leakage. Properly fitted, a butt plug can be worn comfortably for hours, even out in public, giving the wearer the satisfaction of knowing that control has been attained and the master the ability to control. There are several important points to fitting and trying butt plugs. There are male-female differences, not just anatomically.
What is available
Standard butt plugs are conical with a central bulge and a small pinched area before a grip. Some grips are very small and narrow and some caution is advisable that the plug is not lost deep into the rectum. This is the worst of all possibilities and may require medical or surgical removal with some attendant damage to the rectum and surrounding structures. This is to be avoided. I discourage the use of non standard materials such as bottles because they lack a method for retrieval or removal. There are other butt plugs including ones in the shape of a penis, some with rough edges. These are for the well trained rather than the initiate. For those with watersport training there are plugs with central or radial canals so that an enema can be administered after the plug has been inserted. There are some plugs which can be inflated, so that once inserted, loss prevention can be assured with pressure inflation. These should be used only by experienced masters since over filling can cause tearing of the interior.
Insertions
There are many ways to insert butt plugs. First a word about hygiene. It is important to realize that although the ass can be a center for much pleasure and stimulation, it is also a route of elimination. Great care should be taken with females not to cross contaminate the vagina and rectal areas; however, after a good enema prep and cleansing, switching between rectum and vagina can be done. Prior to that, using one hand for each with care taken not to switch or to clean them between insertions is a good idea. By the same token, toys used for the rectum should not directly be inserted into the vagina. With males, some care should be taken that toys or other contaminants do not come in direct contact with the head of the penis. Especially care should be taken if catheters are used that the areas are cleaned before insertion and before removal, with either male or female.
The first insertion described here is for initiates and helps to get into the fun of the act. Later, if desired, other aspects can be added or deleted as the master sees fit. There are several easier positions for insertion including standing bent over, standing bent over with cheeks spread or on knees, chest on pillow. This traditional method, with the ass thrust up in the air and the legs spread apart is probably the easiest for initiates. It also allows for other genital stimulation making the experience more whole. If there is difficulty with collapsing of the legs or bringing the legs together with stimulation, either a standard leg restrainer or simple pillow can be used to hold the legs. Use of a lubricant with initiates helps increase the fun and makes for better fitting initially. Once the optimal holding size has been determined then other methods, without lubricants can be used.
Take a finger, coat it with lubricant, the best I’ve found is WET and gently wipe around the asshole. Depending on the experience of the person, you may elect to do this for several minutes with spreading motions of the outer ring. You may want, with initiates, to use a glove for the first insertions. Begin to probe with the finger, making small circular motions inside the ass, probing to your right. If you remove the finger and see feces [shit] on it, it may be a good time to use a small cleansing enema. Warm soapsuds work best. A low volume will allow later additional enemas without ruining the effect. Allow retention lying on the left side for about 5-6 minutes with expulsion and good cleaning around the genital area with warm soap and water. With males make sure to clean the testicle folds; with females be sure to wipe from front to back. I don’t recommend the use of fleet or dulcolax suppositories, both of which give great testing enemas for advanced use but cause dryness and take too long for this part of the procedure.
Now that your initiate has returned, put him or her back to the original position. Stand the butt plug upright on a towel and apply an amount of WET to the tip. Thrust it gently into the ass but then withdraw it even though it may only easily go in a half inch. Regrease it. Reinsert it. This may need to be repeated 4 – 6 times with liberal use of lubricant. Don’t use vaseline since it ruins the butt plug and works poorly as a lubricant. Similarly many lotions and oils do not hold up well. The plug should slide into the ass with no distress up to its widest point at which time there will be some protesting or moving away on the part of the wearer, If necessary restrain the wearer by holding around the legs or inserting a finger into the vagina. Sometimes with women, inserting a finger or two into the vagina and massaging through to the rectum can relax those tissues and make insertion easier. With males, stroking the balls or penis can increase arousal with insertion done between those periods of arousal.
If the plug you have chosen seems to fit well and advancing the size causes unwanted pain or discomfort; stop. There are other positions for plug insertion including supine with legs held aloft, spread or together, and prone with the legs spread but knees flat on the ground. The latter is not particularly satisfying because there is little access to other genital areas. Lying on the side with one knee in front of the other is another position and is good for post enema plug insertions with minimal fluid loss. Plugs can be inserted on a wheel with the wearer upside down or even in vehicles. A favorite is to have the wearer lean over the seat, touching the back seat with the hands and then insert.
Testing the Plug
Well, you say. How do I know if the plug will stay in. How can I test it. What if it plops out at some inopportune time. Will it hold with an enema? Once the wearer has been properly fitted and the largest size which doesn’t flop back out obtained, have the wearer stand [if not already standing]. Ask them to try to have a bowel movement [squeeze]. If the plug flies out, go for a larger size. If that does not make the plug come out, ask them to squat. The plug should hold. Some people, particularly females who have had children may be able to hold the plug by squeezing the rectum but otherwise find the plug gradually slips out. Masters may find that the best test of retention is to have the wearer go for a walk. The wearer may find lots of pleasure with the internal pressure and the movement producing great sensations. Another test is to have women squat, insert two fingers into the vagina facing rearward and press against the plug. Without using a lot of force, plugs which are too small but which are being retained by the squeezing of muscles rather than the proper sizing of the plug can be expelled and a proper size plug replaced.
Removing Plugs
Once in, the plugs can be removed by grasping the wider base, asking the wearer to relax and twisting the plug outward in a corkscrew like motion. Pressure against the abdomen, over the pubis [just above the clit or penis] or pressure in the space between the vagina and rectum or testicles and rectum can help release a well implanted plug. Inserting fingers into the vagina and applying force is ok so long as the fingers are well lubricated and the force is not applied just to the wall of the vagina but along a length of the device. There is a possibility of injury if force is used. If there is still trouble, a well lubricated finger can be run around the outer rim of the device until the outer ring of the asshole releases. Remember, if there is an enema inside, there will be NO DELAY between removal of the plug and expulsion. If you elect to remove a plugged enema, best to do so in the area in which elimination is intended.
Plugs are easy, portable fun. They can be used by individuals or groups. Care should be taken to clean a plug before it is inserted into someone else. Usually surface cleaning with soap and water or the use of a cleaning agent helps. WET lubricant has antibacterial and antiviral agents in the lubricant; K-Y does not.
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